I had a short thread about a month ago and although I tried hard my W was/is determined to get the big D. There is not much I can do about that. However, today things have fallen apart and become a disaster/critical point---her father bust thru my door and threatened to kill me and that he knew people that would put me into the ground, called me boy and p***y and other things that go lower that that. I am amazingly surprised at how I handled this by not escalating this into a physical altercation and repeatedly told him that he needs to leave MY house, and I will not fight him, he kept trying to get me to fight him, finally I moved towards a phone and told him that I was calling the police. He than left and sped off all the while telling me that he was going to get me, etc, etc... I did file a report and document this with the station just in case. I dont believe that he will do anything as he has always been all bark no bite but what else could/should I do? I am alot freaked out about this and am not sure how to proceed. I have already called my lawyer but she is not in until Monday, called the Police and filed a report but am i missing something? I have been threatened by my W more times than I can count with abandonment if I leave so my lawyer says to stay in the house at all costs if I can. W also threatens constantly to call the police and report a false abuse charge to get me removed from the house. At this point the D is filed and we are waiting on the paperwork to come back and she needs to re-finance the house into her name so that I can go get another loan--however she will not do that and says that she cannot afford to re-fianance... I did call my W after her dad left and asked what this was all about and she said that he is justified in his actions because he(dad) is upset and that I do not respect him(wonder why!). Please help...................
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
