And as long as you assume the worst and react accordingly, you'll have this issue.

Did he ever do this before the bomb was dropped? (As in, go off and not call?) Maybe you're more sensitive to it now...

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."