Okay...let's just suppose we can label this MLC...now what...does that change anything for you? MLC can run a course of 7 years...my H's was 6 years...Do you really want to wait that long for someone you are not married to?...someone that you don't have children with?...in my opinion it would make you look needy and pathetic to wait for someone who has no commitment to you...

Now had you been married...had you had a very long history (most states don't consider anything less then 10 years to be long)and possible children involved then it might make sense to wait this out...but I am inclined to ask why would you wait for someone who bailed so abruptly on you and has made no effort to reconcile in months??? And you were not even married to begin with...

Bow out gracefully and move on...like I said if he comes to his senses and you have not been snatched up by another knight in shining armor riding a white horse then you can think about it...but personally, if he bolted so easily I would be inclined to let him go...cie la vie!


Status:

Happy and together