Hi Kalni,

Oh no... I don't want to stop him from sharing at all! I know he knows that... we talk often. But, there are times when he starts to go into too much detail that is not necessary to what we are discussing. It hurts too much. I want to hear his thoughts and feelings, I want us to process this together. That is what we are doing. I don't want to hear too much detail about OW and their R. There is only so much I can take. Don't get me wrong... I would rather have it this way than him not talking or sharing much at all.

Rabbit.. thanks for the encouragement. I know that is true, and I have to remind him sometimes of that. But, usually he seems to be able to hear it when I do that.