I feel unfortunate to be part of your club. Right now, I can see myself where you are in the spring. Our W's doesn't realize how good they have it now. I suppose I need to totally detach if this tough love thing is going to work. I hope you can shake up things and your W sees the light soon. I'm here to support ya no matter what happens. Hang in there.
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my 2 cents,,
Don't just suppose... Detaching was/is one of the hardest things I have done/doing. Follow it up with a tough love approach and it is exceptionally hard... I have found that for me, GALing is by far the most effective way to approach those two concepts.. it won't happen overnight, and when it did begin to kick in, it seemed to build upon itself...
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09
