lost1234,
I'm so sorry for your pain. I am going through the same thing. I have read the books, both DB & DR, and have tried with several failed attempts to follow the 180 and LRT. I've really only succeeded at them for the last 2 days. However, from what I've read and researched, it can work. In addition, everyone says if it doesn't, you'll feel better about yourself. It's still so new for me, that I'm really doing it mostly for the chance it will bring H back.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
D9 & S6
Seperated 12/3/09


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10