Lotus and Gima, 50% is better odds than I have currently!
I think this is a hard one to quantify. After all there are different types of WAS. Also one of the underlying themes of troubled marriages is lack of hope. I guess hope and having and open mind and heart are not one in the same.
My W is open to going but does not have much (any) hope that things will change. That being said she jumped at the opportunity to attend. In fact she had a sitter lined up within an hour of our conversation.
She also has no idea of the man that I have become. It is amazing what time can do.
I'm hoping she will be presently surprised with the entire experience.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09