CTH, Well it sounds like you have decided to move out of limbo land. First let me say good job. Now let me add a word of caution. Make sure that when you are talking to your W you are coming from a position of strength and self control versus an emotional outburst. This could come off as a simple escalation versus a loving decision if you are not in the correct frame of mind. Think loving boundaries and taking control of your life versus manipulating, punishing or controlling her.
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