Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I actually did good the first two nights. I didnt initiate contact. He called me both nights, he began texting me first the second night. I ended it both times. But yesterday when I hadnt heard from him it bothered me. So I called.

That's how it is supposed to work, but he's the one who is supposed to be calling.

You're not going to make progress every single day. There will be days where things stay put, and you will have setbacks. The trick is to look at the overall changes being made.