Just wanted to say Hi RW, you are doing so well, and trying so hard to be understanding, but dont beat yourself up because youre not understanding quick enough for H.. However hard it is for him he needs to give you time, as long as every thing you do does not look like a revenge tactic, I have made the mistake in the past of getting my 4c's worth after an argument and now I wouldnt dream off as I know how hurtful that has been to H!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!