I agree with Kalni. So hard to believe that there is not some way that these recurring "over reactions", especially her frequent calling of the police, couldn't be used against her in the court proceedings.
I assume you are filling your lawyer in on all of her madness with specifics and details. And hopefully your lawyer is planning how she can best use your stbx's outlandish behavior to your advantage.
What a shame that your children have to experience the ongoing insanity. You know, not every divorce unfolds in such an ugly way. Your stbx is CHOOSING to leave numerous scars on your children by the antagonistic and hateful way she is making this divorce unfold.
If, like me, you believe that ultimately the mean and nasty people of the world get what's coming to them, you have to believe that your wife will suffer greatly one day for the pain and suffering she is dragging your children through.
Her parents must be as insane as she is to not step forward and do something about her. Shame on them.
As for you, standing your ground is really good FIB. Time for you to take charge and do what you know is right and in your childrens best interestes, regardless of what your wife thinks about it. I have to believe that these recrurring phone calls to the police will eventually bite her in the ass.
Prayers for a quick and merciful end to this really horrible situation. For you AND for the kids.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."