Just got back...we decided to go out to eat. Nice afternoon...bought xsd and her friend lunch. She asked to me to promise to go visit her...she lives 2 hrs. away. One thing I know is that both xsds have developped into fine young ladies. I also notice that they are old enough now to see things around them and make their own opinions. Unfortunatelly for them, their monm still shows signs of selfishness. I guess some things never change. I often thought that I did not do enough for these young women...they disagree. I will try to be more "visable" at their request. Interestingly both said that I am their stepfather for life...