Originally Posted By: britt54
Should I be over in Piecing now? And how do you apply DB techniques to my situation. Its hard now that he is home?


Have you read DR yet? I would start there.

Work on 180s and GAL. Don't pursue R conversations until/unless he wants to discuss things.

You do see how this works, right? He ignored you for a weekend, and you kept pursuing contact with him. Why isn't it the other way around?


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."