I feel unfortunate to be part of your club. Right now, I can see myself where you are in the spring. Our W's doesn't realize how good they have it now. I suppose I need to totally detach if this tough love thing is going to work. I hope you can shake up things and your W sees the light soon. I'm here to support ya no matter what happens. Hang in there.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.