Thanks DBD and WL! I will follow your advice and not tell SIL, just say I went to a get together and had fun! She may not even press for details.

So far today I have only interacted with WH for about 10 minutes...just finished working out!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004