Hi H'mama! Perhaps your example of letting go, might help her in her romantic R's in the future. It must be very difficult to be a child of a 'narcissist'. I think she may've already been effected long before he left, in subtle ways? Possibly, some literature on this type of R somewhere?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim