givingitmyall,
Thank you for replying. I know that is exactly what I'm supposed to do, but doing it is the hardest. One day at a time!!

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10