Boy, for a minute there, I thought you were going to say you found a man in the house! Glad that didn't happen!

Unfortunately, there are women married to professional men who believe that they can get a nice alimony and child support payment by divorcing and don't need to live with the man at all. I'm sorry that your wife is not welcoming to you when you come home. She does sound closed minded on the subject on improving your marriage. That is a real shame.