Well, I would honestly examine your intentions and more importantly your expectations of this act.
Is this for her or for you? Are you still trying to fix by helping her heal?
What if you just copied the 'spouse' portions of your book & gave to her & let her know that this is part of a book you have been using as the basis to be grow & become a better person and the first step to doing that was gaining some insight into what she went through for years being married to you.
I think she might want it to be about her, not you. good luck Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
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