We were having a conv about her going back to school. I asked what she was thinking about etc. Then it switched to finances and splitting of the bills. A a very big slippery slope later she said this is too difficult and went to go lay down. Big backslide when I brought up how difficult it would be to live on 1500 each month b/c of additional medical expenses we have. Won't do that again, I hope.
Just focusing on S3 and giving him some lunch before his scheduled nap time.

Could someone help me with trying to find a balance. I feel like I am being too cold. I don't know how to keep firm boundaries and stay non-frigid.

R2C, Couldn't find the boundaries thread? I was blond once.

"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others."
Solomon Ibn Gabriol