Trapt i was keeping my word on the clothes and stuff, asked, told begged, don't want her to do anything for me or the kids, i can handle it.
on the giving my stuff away, she has my friends over all the time and i told her yrs ago and thru this a divorce is like a funeral only care about the 3 people in the home, the other is just money or stuff.
giving it away, because i really don't, really don't want it. also the important momentos, given to the kids, so i know that it will stay in the house.
