So......H came to hotel where S11 was having his birthday party. The plan was for us to have the party and then I would take the girls home, he would stay with the boys for the night. He invited D12's softball coach to meet him there---since he lives close(??). He watched S open presents and then excused himself to have a "beer" with coach, since he was there...................he finally shows up 2 hours later, after I texted him to tell him that I needed to leave (snowing again). I'm sure he had had enough alcohol to get him through the evening, AND he didn't have to spend 5 minutes in my presence. I really don't like who he has become.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12