Hi Kalni - Happy New Year!

Glad to hear there has been some progress with H. It's very easy to fall right back into old patterns (it's happened in my sitch too). Try to be aware of the old ways that didn't work and slowly change them. You have to take the lead on this since you're the one that's done all the reading and grown from all that's happened. Your H has a long way to go to catch up to you. He needs your lead to guide him to some of the positive steps he needs to take.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz