Thanks RW! I have been thinking all morning about what to say when H does eventually call and I am going to use what you said about calling the OW. It is true! This is my M and family we are talking about! He is MY H and I will not apologize!
H just called and is coming to split some wood and bring it in (we have a wood burner and have been desperately trying to keep it going since it has been about 8 degrees the last couple of days here. S14 and I have brought wood in but it is all buried under snow and hard to get to...anyway, am a nervous wreck...my hands are shaking and I can hardly type. He was very nice on the phone. D11 answered and he asked her to ask me if I would talk to him for a minute. I will not initiate any R talk and will not even bring up the phone call unless he does. Is this the right thing to do?
Luckily, I have plans with DIL to go see The Blind Side and will have to leave probably while he is still here!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
