I did, I sent it before I got a response on here and she called me and said she was going to out herself to her command so this wouldn't be hanging over her head. I said, so let me get this straight, you're unwilling to go to counseling because you don't want your affair to be reported to your command but instead you intend to turn yourself into your command? That doesn't make any sense. I said, either you sign up and start going to counseling or I will just go ahead and file. I also told her that I thought is was crap that she refused to pay child support anymore. She said, our daughter will be staying with me every other week now. I said, who decided that? That's not really fair to our daughter, yanking her back and forth every week, especially during the school year as she will not have a good routine.
Her final response was, why can't you just get past all this and let me come home(and yes, she was crying)? I once again, told her what I required and hung up shortly afterwards.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
