After thinking about my sitch, I feel as if my W was testing me, to see if I was still on the "line" so to speak. When she realized how easy it was to "have" me, I think/believe she lost respect for me. I think she thinks I am the same weak guy she left, and now finds me unattractive in that aspect.
I feel like I should do something to try to regain that respect and dignity I lost. What does a guy do though?
Thoughts?
SD, babe, we're feeling you here, but you have got to get a grip. Why do you continue to act like you aren't better than this? Yes, I get that you love her. We all love our spouses, however, after what she has done to you, you really need to make her work for you. If you don't, she will do this to you again. She knows she can do ANYTHING to you, and you'll come running back like a litte b!tch.
You know how you get your respect and dignity back? Nut up and shut up.
