You keep your respect by NOT pursuing her. i.e. You don't push for the MC, you don't push for info on what she is doing. Instead you remain "stand offish."
I don't remember if you filed or not. But you keep on that parallel path and stay on your lawyer. Notify him of the "event", find out what the legal impact is. Don't forget, you were in violation of the restraining order that she put on you. So find out if this gets "nullified."
In the mean time you remain on your best behavior.
