You sound angry and hurt. And that's both understandable and ok. God knows, I understand that. But, if you are making this decision to go forward based on emotion, I suggest you take a step back. 48 hour rule - if it's a good idea, it will still be so in two days, but the emotions will have subsided by then.
Yes. The 48-hour rule helped last night because I really wanted to call W back or send her to a text and I held off. I've been angry and upset before and either gave into my worst instincts or work up the next day and talked myself off the ledge.
This time the decision feels right. There are lots of things coming to a head at once. The lease is up in January. We have to discuss the summer camps and who pays for those. The awkward Valentine's Day/Anniversary days.
Getting the ball rolling will get this stuff laid out in print.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
