AS,Cheaters do not want to go to MC because they are mentally done with the marriage and are dreaming of the new relationship.
Simply NOT supported by data, I'm afraid. From studying thousands of affairs, I have seen that the MAJORITY will agree to (and some even OFFER) marriage counseling, for some combination of:
1) Looking good to family and friends;
2) Advised by their attorney;
3) Show that that "See? -- I did everything I could."
No, we do not know that she is, but she has before, the recidivism rate for affairs is EXTREMELY high if not ever addressed properly thru no-contact/transparency, MC specializing in infidelity, etc., and the current warning signs are all there.
