Hey BBJ,, if Dan has been hanging around so much, something tells me it is not because of the kids. If that were the case, he could take them to his house. It is obvious to anyone reading along here that BBJ is nowhere close to wanting to move on. Nothing wrong with that. I hope that book helps but again it is pretty hard to get over your break up when you see your H for 12 days straight....not at the drive through but in your house. BBJ I bet a whole bunch of us would be feeling the same way if our exes were lingering around for so long. pretty difficult to mourn the end of a relationship when the body is lying on your couch and still breathing.Hope things work out BBJ,,,I am still pulling for you.
John,
That right there is funny! Because I got home around eleven from the party I went to, and he was literally sleeping on my couch!! I wasn't sure what to do, he had Sydney curled up with him. So I took her away from him and put her in bed. He said he was there sleeping by her b/c she kept waking up her brother.
Sure enough she came walking out of her room seconds later. So I put her in my bed and came back out. Dan was back asleep!? I debated waking him again or not, and I went and iced my back instead. Don't know why but my lower back on the left side has been killing me for 2 days...
So at 11:40 his alarm on his phone went off. He woke up again and got his coat and left. Tonight we review the final draft of our divorce settlement, then it is time to sign and be done with the legal part.
John, not sure what you meant about 'if he is hanging around so much it is not because of the kids'. I am pretty damn sure it isn't to be around me. He hasn't initiated a touch of any kind in a year except the occasional 'hold hands to say grace' business. I am thinking it is just more convenient to him to have them at my house instead of his parents...
And no John I am not totally done. I need help with that, hence the book...something has to change. Since Dan seems to want to continue this dance I will have to be the one to change the steps...
