One other thing, I was doing some research, and came across borderline personalilty disorder. My W LIES constantly. If she isn't lying, she is stretching the truth, or telling just enough of something to cover her behind. This seems to fit my W to the letter.

Again, how does one/should one, mention these issues to the spouse?

After talking with my W, she seems to know she has an underlying problem, but she really doesn't know what to do about it.

Now that I think about it, will she ever open up about these things-to a doctor/IC, and admit to her issues? I'm not sure at this point.


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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