Funny, you should mention giving him the reigns on discipline sometimes... Last night, I was really tired after dinner/shopping, and was going to lie down. H and boys were upstairs playing Xbox Live for a bit, and I asked him to help them start to get back on a normal sleeping schedule, as they start school in two days again. (They have been staying up WAY too late, then sleeping in...) It's funny. He will do it, when asked, but looked completely confused as to what he was going to tell them is a good time for bed. I let him figure it out, and went to lie down. I can't wait to see what his normal is/was!
You hit the nail on the head w/H and collage and emotions. It's hard to relate when you're the type that wears your emotions on your sleeve!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.