Hey BBJ,, if Dan has been hanging around so much, something tells me it is not because of the kids. If that were the case, he could take them to his house. It is obvious to anyone reading along here that BBJ is nowhere close to wanting to move on. Nothing wrong with that. I hope that book helps but again it is pretty hard to get over your break up when you see your H for 12 days straight....not at the drive through but in your house. BBJ I bet a whole bunch of us would be feeling the same way if our exes were lingering around for so long. pretty difficult to mourn the end of a relationship when the body is lying on your couch and still breathing.
Hope things work out BBJ,,,I am still pulling for you.