Hey Maria, I know I am no position to even suggest to you what you should and should not say, however, you may want to add something else to your new year's goals....stop saying things that will hurt him .... for example"
<<During our fight I used on purpose one of his fav phrases "you are the worst person I have met in my life and sadly I married you" Yeah I know... He didnt take it well and he was even more hurt when I said he just "plays the good person he is a rotten person inside" . Again something that really hurt me years ago. So, when we talked I asked him if he remembered how many times I had cried myself to sleep after being told I had a chitty soul etc etc... >>
What possible good can come out of this???
Oh and you never got into the reason fro this new year's eve fight....I am curious.... :-)
