Step one of retaking control of my life. I sent W an email about the after school routine. I've been getting off work to go over to our house -- which I no longer live in -- to meet the girls off the bus.

Of course, it means I'm over there an hour a day and it just sucks and I haven't been able to stop myself from snooping.

I don't want to know what W is doing anymore, what bills she's paying or not paying, what she's getting in the mail.

So I sent her an email.

"We need to change the after school routine. From now on the girls need to come here after school. Once (the after school sitter) shows up at 3:30 p.m. we have a couple of options."

Then I laid the options out.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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