Lotus. You might be mistaking me for C-Bart. He's going to Retrouville. C-Bart, GIMA and I have very, very similar situations.

I would love for W to just go back to MC. We went once together back in February then once separately. She told me she told the counselor at her individual sessiont that her only goal in counseling was to convince me it was over.

I know this isn't going to be as easy as it sounded to me last night. The finances are just such a mess. Essentially she'll owe me a lot of money but have no way to get it -- so I don't know how that works.

Funny thing is I have a feeling my L may tell me it's in OUR best financial interest for me to move home while the D is finalized. I'm just speculating on that. I only had the one appointment with the guy. I have a lot to learn.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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