Exh sent a text early evening asking what we were doing for the night. I said we hadn't decided yet. He said 'have fun' and never heard from him again. I did notice that MOW was off his FB again.
Getting back on schedule starting today. I will be civil and friendly, but not going to allow him to walk all over our schedule anymore. Holidays are over...time to see if it was just holiday blues for him.
Here is to a great 2010 for all of us!
Why is it "time to see if"...anything with or about him?Why not control your own life? Did you read my post at all? I get the feeling you read them and skim for "quick tips and secrets" to get THEM to change, and then you move along rehashing the latest misdeed or tiny melodrama or stuff that belongs in high school...honestly, MOW is someone you never had to speak with and do NOT need to ever speak with again. But here you are caring about her "unfriending you" and "re friending your X h ...10 years from now, I think you'll be cringing...so much wasted time. Or, you'll still be writing this stuff. Which is it going to be?
You do deserve better -- but life doesn't "give better" to you. You go get a better life for you, AND for your d. Get out of your own way, stop stopping yourself, and just do it. Make SPECIFIC goals w/ measurable benchmarks for progress, and start towards them now... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
