Lurker here - but have read a lot of your really good posts, G. I'm so sorry for the losses. It's a challenge but it's about them, not you. You must remember perhaps they are all in a fog! As long as you know you are a good person, and you know you did nothing wrong, then the rejection IS NOT ABOUT YOU. Perhaps they are defending your STBXW I don't know bc I don't know your sitch. But now is the time for self love - you are a good person and deserve better.
