When I read that you and OM work together, I thought, "Why not confront OM?" Then I saw this on Patpat's thread.
"Yesterday, while at work, several of my employees that have noticed my W in town with OM caught up with OM in a parking lot where he works at. One of my guys wanted to smash his face in, another called me on the phone at office. I rushed over to stop a confrontation, thinking it would have negative effect if W found out my boys did something like this.
I did not even know that some of my guys knew who this fella is, or what he drove.
I got there, employee was gone. OM was there, and I could not help myself.
This was our first face to face....
I walked up to his vehicle, he rolled down the window. I extended my hand, and he extended his. At this point, I do not think he knew who was....
I said, " I am W's H. I love my wife and what you are doing is wrong. My S loves his mother and wants her home. W and I have some things that we need to work out. I am not sure of your intensions, but you need to back off. I do not wish to have problems with you but if this continues, there could be. Man to man, I am telling you to back off". He just said, I don't want no prob's either, and your boys are not doing anything to threaten me. He stared at me, and I left.
I wanted to smash his face, but did not."
So now we will get to see how it works out.
But it seems to me that if he sees you and you know and you say nothing, then you are giving him tacit approval to do what he is doing.
