Also, yesterday, and old friend calls me up and tells me that she has feelings for me. She asays that she has heard that I recently separated and that she is in love with me. I told her that I love my W and was going to see this thru. She began to tell me that she is not happy in her marriage, and wants to leave her husband... and her H has know that she wanted out 2 weeks after they married. She has been married to H for 8 months and they never spend time together... Weird, I know.
My friend know my W. She says she may or may not come back... I said I understood that. She said we could hang out etc..., I told her that I thought that that was not a good idea, and I would not be able to do that. Ended convo.
She texted me several time thru out the evening telling me how much she loved me and that now after all these years, this could be our chance at happiness.... I did not and will not reply....
This lady has been a good friend of ours for years. My W started to not like her about 1.5 yrs ago. Honoring W's wishes, we cut all contact with her then. Now, out of blue, she pops up.
Anyone think W had something to do with that....
A test maybe....
Me 43 / W 40 T 29 / M 15 S-18 11/4/09-ILYBINILWY 11/10/09-Separated 12/1/09-W admitted EA 12/5/09-W admitted PA 12/24/09 W say "I love you"
"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"