A Choice

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Did I screw up....

Yesterday, while at work, several of my employees that have noticed my W in town with OM caught up with OM in a parking lot where he works at. One of my guys wanted to smash his face in, another called me on the phone at office. I rushed over to stop a confrontation, thinking it would have negative effect if W found out my boys did something like this.

I did not even know that some of my guys knew who this fella is, or what he drove.

I got there, employee was gone. OM was there, and I could not help myself.

This was our first face to face....

I walked up to his vehicle, he rolled down the window. I extended my hand, and he extended his. At this point, I do not think he knew who was....

I said, " I am W's H. I love my wife and what you are doing is wrong. My S loves his mother and wants her home. W and I have some things that we need to work out. I am not sure of your intensions, but you need to back off. I do not wish to have problems with you but if this continues, there could be. Man to man, I am telling you to back off". He just said, I don't want no prob's either, and your boys are not doing anything to threaten me. He stared at me, and I left.

I wanted to smash his face, but did not.

W texted me several hours later.. about a ball game she was going too... few hours after that she called wanting to stop by the house and drop off the second part of a X-mas gift she bought me last year.... few days ago..

I told her that I was not home, she said, "oh, you had to work today... this tells me that because she did not realize I had to work, she did not realize I was in next town... which tells me OM did not at this time tell her I had ran into him....

I told her I was not home, she said she would stop by tomorrow.. wich is today...

Did I mess up talking to OM. I did not plan too, was going to try and avoid while giving W space.... it just happened.

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BTW.... ball game W said she was going to was actually a party for our local college team where several people gather to was.... this time it was held at OM parents house. After, game W returned to her girlfriends house where she has been staying....