R2C,

I was on call tonight and read through your entire sitch. We are so much alike. I had a lump in my throat and my gut ached as I read. I really appreciate you offering your wisdom to me it has helped so much. While I read it was almost like I was watching myself. The time you have taken to help others battle this painful experience is wonderful. I hope all is going well with you now.

The last thing you wrote on my thread was re the New Years party. "what are your plans with the kids?" That hit me BIG. I stayed home, and it was the right choice.

Thanks....really


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.