Forward, on the how did I feel when son went for tea with x and wifey in a word I was gutted, but then I had to stop myself and think that son is 15 years old now and if this is his choice so be it, I think that if he does go for tea that he will probably see more of his dad, because as I have said in the past x can only see son when wifey allows, I will try and not let it bother me, yes you are right I would love ex to wake up, but I cant see that happening either. too long, too much water under the bridge etc, yes I do still care about x but that is all. x
