It makes me so angry though. Seriously...is this what we want? to be "longing" for someone's attention/affection? We all deserve better than that. I just get so cynical sometimes reading these posts.
Thank you for your response.
you know why we are all here??? because of a lack of communication. and do you know why it's great to be here??? because we can learn to fix it. choose to take this time to learn and make your M better than it ever was before. going thru rough times can make us stronger or can make us miserable and weak. Which do you want?
you've got such incredible signs of hope in your M, and all I can say is wow. don't make it less than what it is. He's not going to be perfect all the time, and your too focused on what he isn't doing, or is doing wrong, then the things he's doing right.
Originally Posted By: luvless Oh yeah..forgot to tell you...he says to me at the bar, "look I know my wife is hot..I've been watching this guy over here looking at you all night and it's getting on my nerves." LOL whatever
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SMACK! (for the "whatever") Dang girl are you blind or what?
Ask the other ladies here what they would give to hear that from their H's lips?
C'mon... go ahead... ask them... I dare you!
and ya, G is way right on this one...wow, he just gave you a big compliment, and your dismissing it. It's all because of your bitterness, so try really hard to learn to forgive the hurt he's caused you so you can open up to the good he's trying to give you...otherwise he's going to quit doing it.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
