Ok gang, you asked for it.
The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing But the Truth.
My husband is a serial abuser.
The first time he hit me was shortly after S19 was born.
Pushed my head through the sheetrock (good thing I missed the stud). Was immediately apologetic, and foolishly, I fell for it.
We argued a lot, and I insisted on MC.
There were more incidents of pushing, slapping, pinching, socking, often leaving bruises. I covered up for him. Ashamed.
Confided in his mother, who did not want to hear about it.
I stayed. And made another kid. And things were fine, for a while.