Off to get pretty. H and I are taking the boys to this awesome steak house. The boys and I have been, but they wanted H to experience it, too... So, off we go!
It's so cold here. 7 degrees.
Our old house is drafty, too!!! Brrrrrrr... I've put off long getting ready long enough. But, I dread getting out of the shower!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Run it by me and your current level of fitness. It's best to gradually work into something. It's pretty elementary, the stress has to gradually increase as you allow your body to adapt with rest or reduced stress.
Have to run...gotta do a Csection
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
All is good. H just punishes about once per year, and, well, you know... goes overboard, and then back pedals, when he realizes what a dork he's been.
my thoughts on this....he goes overboard because he doesn't discipline them. start giving him the reigns on this one. so if the kids do something wrong..do what he does...bring them to him and say, will you please figure out a punishment for them. and then let him figure it out.
I agree that him changing the punishment might not be the best thing, but it is good that they have the punishment to begin with, and sometimes it's okay to take part away when they show they are remorseful and being good. I mean, even our system let's criminals get out or on parole for good behavior, or whatever it's called. But, there are probably aspects of your disciplining that he doesn't think is the right way too. but that's normal, no one is perfect, and there isn't really a perfect way to discipline either.
Heart procedure... so glad your done with that and it went well!! yeah!!!
naturopath... you ask her opinion on the juice too, I'd like to hear what she has to say.
2010 goals... Great Job!!!
H's reaction to collage... Is your H the type to not show emotions much (correct me if I'm wrong) but I'm wondering, perhaps it drew up emotions that weren't easy for him to share, and maybe his sister's emotions allowed him to open up? I wouldn't be upset by that. My H and his dad don't have an R. his dad has schizophrenia so he sees/talks to him once every 3 years, but I know it's something that's hard for him. He acts like he doesn't care, but I know that's not true. He didn't even cry at his gmas funeral..the lady that took care of him as a child, and he lived with her for 3-4 years before we met. Some men just have a hard time opening up.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I want your shoes!!! a friend of mine got a pair too and she says it really works. but darn, christmas is already passed. maybe I can get some for valentines??? lol
or, if your a size 7, you can just ship me yours when your as$ is buns of steel. haha
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Funny, you should mention giving him the reigns on discipline sometimes... Last night, I was really tired after dinner/shopping, and was going to lie down. H and boys were upstairs playing Xbox Live for a bit, and I asked him to help them start to get back on a normal sleeping schedule, as they start school in two days again. (They have been staying up WAY too late, then sleeping in...) It's funny. He will do it, when asked, but looked completely confused as to what he was going to tell them is a good time for bed. I let him figure it out, and went to lie down. I can't wait to see what his normal is/was!
You hit the nail on the head w/H and collage and emotions. It's hard to relate when you're the type that wears your emotions on your sleeve!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
