Nasty as it sounds I'm glad I have access to W's E-Mail.

I sent this today:

Quote:

My advice is that much as I would like to, I can't legally change the locks on the house because you own half of it.

I really do feel sorry for you because you seem to be under the impression that you have to resort to these tactics.

I have told you this before, after 23 years there is no "mine and hers". EVERYTHING we own belongs to us both.

Accordingly I will need a list of all the things you have taken from the house other than your clothes so they can be valued before being divided.


This was a couple of hours after I discovered she had been taking things from the house. I know I should, and will, consult a Solicitor, but am I justified in doing this, or should I take the line "If in doubt do nothing" and don't sweat the small stuff ?

Anyway It's deleted from her E-Mail - I can always send it again


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010