Nasty as it sounds I'm glad I have access to W's E-Mail.
I sent this today:
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My advice is that much as I would like to, I can't legally change the locks on the house because you own half of it.
I really do feel sorry for you because you seem to be under the impression that you have to resort to these tactics.
I have told you this before, after 23 years there is no "mine and hers". EVERYTHING we own belongs to us both.
Accordingly I will need a list of all the things you have taken from the house other than your clothes so they can be valued before being divided.
This was a couple of hours after I discovered she had been taking things from the house. I know I should, and will, consult a Solicitor, but am I justified in doing this, or should I take the line "If in doubt do nothing" and don't sweat the small stuff ?
Anyway It's deleted from her E-Mail - I can always send it again
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010