Oh yeah, the other thing about the house being half hers. I'm not legally allowed to change the locks to stop her coming in when I'm not home.
I have asked the kids to ring me though if she turns up wanting to take anything else. I explained the LAW to them and they understand that what she is doing isn't legal and not just my sense of "stop doing this to me".
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010