OK, I'm just starting to notice that she's been removing things from the house. Nothing big, and strictly speaking mostly stuff she's been given or we've made together, but I can't be sure.

She must have been in the house while me and the kids were at my parents over XMas

Trouble is we have that much "stuff" after 23 years I wouldn't ever be able to work out exactly what she has taken.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010