Just be up front with her; tell her that you want to give the program a try because you want to take a shot at making things work.
Tell her that you guys can decide what you want to do after the weekend.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement