I'm with Lotus.

Just be up front with her; tell her that you want to give the program a try because you want to take a shot at making things work.

Tell her that you guys can decide what you want to do after the weekend.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."